Where there is no forgiveness there is no love with God

Where is that point of being broken that a relationship becomes reality?  

  When does it become real?  Only when it has been broken.  

  When each person fills obligations and fills each others expectations - there is only a contract that is checking off transactions.  But there is no relationship.  

  Once the trust has been breached between those two people in the relationship, trust has been broken there must be a new level of a human being.  There is a new level of trust that much me attained - as there is a new level of trust gained.  

  There is a new level of Trust that must be found just as the covenant has been broken with God that the sons and daughters of God will turn away from Him- but the promise of the Words of God will not be forgotten by their decendants. 

  When there is a true and real relationship, and not just a contract and if it is the true person that matters - then there is a place inside the soul to reach down for forgiveness, to return to that person and for healing.  

  It is the same with the relationship with God we must seek God when He is to be found and call on Him when He is near ( Isa. 55:6).  It is the remembrance in the days of Awe that we return to God and restore those broken relationships.  

  When brokenness happens in relationship there is an art to forgiveness- 

we ask - 

Why forgive ? 

How to ask for forgiveness ?

How do you know you are really forgiven ?

How do you forgive yourself ?   This one was the most difficult for me and it was also the most difficult to do.  

  God forbids us to hold grudges or to have hate in our heart.  Whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness. He does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes.

True strength is expressed by overcoming the instinct of revenge and being able to forgive.

  Psalm 130 talks about this love and crying out to God for mercy that we have broken our relationship with Him and we return.  It is from the depths that we cry out.  It is the same in human relationships that we cry out.  

  My prayer for our beautiful girls is that no matter what relationships that you have.  Commit first to a relationship with God first and foremost.  Then commit to a relationship with yourself.  Have a true relationship with God and yourself - then all other relationships will be real and it will be easier to know who and when to Trust.  My prayer also is to not have hate or to not forgive in your heart - where there is no forgiveness there is no love. 

  I love you our sweet girls and mommy misses you both very much.  I pray for you for your relationship with God and yourself.  And I pray that the relationships that you do have are real, and that you can always discern trust to know they are real.  

with love, sugars, hugs, and more love, 

your momma, 

forever ,

xoxoxo