1320 days alienation since parent interstate kidnapping

 

PSALM 56: 8-11

"You have kept count of my tossing; put my tears in your bottle.

Are they not in your book?

This I know, that God is for me. In God, whose word I praise, in the Lord,

whose word I praise, in god I trust;

I shall not be afraid."

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1,314 days May 21, 2017 - December 25, 2020 since Parent Abduction and Parent Interstate Kidnapping

 December 25, 2020 

    

2017 - this was taken a couple of weeks prior to

Abduction and Kidnapping by their dad. 

December 25, 2020 taken and sent from her dad today.  

    It's December 25th another day.   Another day of Trauma abuse for our girls and I.  

    I got a morning message from our oldest daughter for merry christmas - I had asked her several times for photos but she never sends them. In fact I have sent her at least one message and sometimes several messages per day since the day she and her sister were Parent abducted and kidnapped on May 21, 2017.  I have not received any messages back from her.  I received texts messages from her after they left - i thought her dad was angry and cooling off - but abruptly her messages stopped.  I now know why.   I asked her to please take a photo of herself with her Christmas gift that momma sent to her - I only got the message from her today.  Im curious most of the time even if it is from her.  I can tell by the spelling used in the message who the messages belongs to.  She has a different way of spelling - that is precious to her momma. 

    About 11 am I got three photos of our oldest daughter opening her gift from me.  Three photos of our beautiful girl that no longer look like our beautiful girl.  This is horrific for a parent to do this to a child.  

   To say Psychological trauma abuse it really a mild term.  I asked if she is not allowed to use her phone and then I was blocked from her phone to send her a thank you message for the gifts that she and her sister sent to me with a photo of them. 

    There were no more messages from her to me - and no messages or photos at all from our handicapped daughter.  None.  

    Today was my regular schedule day for my Thirty minute supervised phone call.  I called at my normal time to call her and at 32 minutes the phone was hung up.  I tried to engage in conversation with her but she says bye, poppy, or please the entire call.  Today she said please and was clearly distracted the entire phone call - as she is every time I call.  There is no engagement from her and I am reading her books and nursery rhymes that I used to teach her vocabulary, teaching her interactive and engaging activities and skills of word building and phonetic sounds.  She has not been encouraged or suggested to engage.  

    Most often I hear tones going off during our phone call or distractions of whatever she has or someone else has in the background. This has been disruptive and in addition to causing a disruption in our relationship.  She can no longer say mommy - nor is she encouraged to. Mommy was her base word- her first word and her attachment word.  

    This is caused irreparable harm and trauma to each of us.  Our oldest daughter is 22 and can't be allowed or send text messages or even emails to me.  This is abusive and coercive control.  And for those who emancipated of age decades ago can't be adult enough to encourage a child to have a relationship that they were part in severing is beyond horrible to me.  

    Follow the money trail ....... 

        Follow the money trail .........

with love and Merry holidays - 

    This is become the new "cash cow" .  Our daughters parent kidnapped - and coerced to live a life style they did not grow up with our oldest daughter for ( 17 years ) and our youngest daughter ( almost 14 years) . Financial abuse, Guardianship abuse, medical kidnapping, psychological trauma abuse.  Using children as a weapon to punish a mother.  

Severe Parental Alienation : A mental health emergency 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/resolution-not-conflict/201910/severe-parental-alienation-mental-health-emergency

How Mother - child separation causes Neurobiological vulnerability into adulthood 

https://www.psychologicalscience.org/publications/observer/obsonline/how-mother-child-separation-causes-neurobiological-vulnerability-into-adulthood.html?fbclid=IwAR0aALiVpFOciPxubtDidk2lZxQWO5CM3pelsUShf2AtnV8vDBcaSXHq11g#.Xgo1Q7ET9Fq.facebook

    

    

    

1312 Days since Abduction and Interstate Kidnapping

December 22, 2020  

12/22/2020 Abigailes photo with mommy gift- a quilt with hugs to remember mommy 💕

             
Abigaile the week prior to May 21, 2017 abduction and kidnapping 💕

    I have so much more I want to write.  I have so much to say.  I will be doing an update when I can get some filings done and caught up.  

    There will be no christmas for me this week.  No family. No friends.  I have some new friends who are also alienated and there are Zoom sessions.  

    I was able to hear our daughter for almost an hour tonight on the phone- the transcript is beyond sad. Hearing bye please the entire call. Its very difficult to hear.  The runny icing off the cake was the photo.  I love my beautiful girls but our oldest daughter won't message or call. She is 22 - you would think she could have a choice to call.  

    The photo is disheartening.  There is no best interest when you have coercive control to force children to live polar opposite of how their upbringing has been.  I can't imagine what our children have experienced, I can not imagine what they have been forced to do.  Including to not be able to call me, their mom when they want. There is no voice mail set up- they can't communicate freely with me and all they have heard is how I have been abusive and neglectful to them? 

  No, this is actually Psychological trauma abuse.  They were not abused and they were not neglected.  

They were neglected when I was denied using our daughters van that was purchased by her medical trust. Refused and told that I needed to ask my husband permission to use the van that was to be for her use? 

    No, she was neglected when I begged to take her back to California to do her therapy- the therapy that had her independently walking, not prescribed drugs, and she was happy and healthy. 

    And to the "misled caregiver" who spoke fraud in the court hearing in November.  You have been misled and lied to and you have perjured your testimony.  I was the primary caregiver for our daughter since they were born.  I stayed at home with them both, homeschooled both of them. And taught them by far more than the deceptive institution brainwashing for federal funding they are getting now.  I was the health care manager and primary caregiver. Our Abigaile would be dead if it were not for me.  I had to do CPR on her a couple of times and my previous career was nursing.  I have worked in the hospital environment with 8.5 years experience in addition to 2 years in a specialist pod.  In addition it was my care plan that the government used for her care plan because it was working.  

    You see our daughters were abducted and kidnapped May 21, 2017 just as I said in court.  After a confrontation with Allen about a situation.  He left abruptly and then hid our daughters for a year and half after May 21,2017. I would learn January 2019 through a serving for a dissolution of marriage ( which was never told to me) that our children were abducted and taken to a family violence shelter with false accusations that were never substantiated and never investigated by the state of Texas where we were residents.  

    I had local, regional and state authorities ( documented ) even with case numbers documented - that I was searching for my children.  I was abandoned and deserted in addition to finances cut off and no transportation in an area that I had no resources and no contacts.  I couldn't use legal aide- because he did that and it was a conflict of interest.  I learned from divorce papers that I was served a year and half after he interstate kidnapped our daughters ( without my knowledge or without my consent ) on the divorce papers it states that he lived with our daughters with his mother in her elder gaited community.  So his mother aided in kidnapping and holding our daughters in her home this is on court document. I have no way Ms caregiver of when you came on the scene but you automatically testified that our daughter was emancipated ( no she isn't of age yet ) and then the opposing counsel ( who has also fraud the court with heresy ) that our daughter was emaciated.  

    So there is your answer. Our daughter was health and happy, no consecutive seizures or generalized seizures.  In addition no drugs were ordered by her Dr the same one that has since found it profitable for Munchausen ByProxy https://www.uofmhealth.org/health-library/hw180537 .  This is because of family history.  So our daughter was emaciated because of the lack of care, neglect and Psychological trauma abuse from being abducted and kidnapped and has been punished and ignored for saying mommy.  I shudder at the thoughts of the abuse this child has endured.  So you determine what day since May 21, 2017 and when you seemed to take charge and you can be assured it was not my abuse or neglect.  

    In addition to this I trained on all of my daughters therapies, her treatments, and I administered medical and health care for her. She was rehabilitated and doing well. I cant imagine why a parent would ever jeopardize their childs health and well being but I can assure you I didn't.  She was destroyed and her health abused and neglected as well as exploitation by every person on her team.  

    In addition to this I homeschool both of our daughters.  Our daughter had 20-25 words that were clear and spoken before she was taken.  She also spoke in two - three word sentences.  She had full cognitive understanding of those words and sentences.  She had cognitive understanding as well as receptive language.  In other words, I taught our daughter her words, her grammar and her language skills.  To say that she is saying bye ( stating that is her wanting to get off the phone with me and throwing stuff down) again, you have been misled or lied to.  What this is - is Abigaile requesting to go bye to see me ( her mom) she in fact is begging to see me.  I hear her hitting and throwing things. When a non verbal child does this it means they feel not heard and they are frustrated. It further causes the drop seizures in addition to a lack of trust with whomever this is taking place with.  

    Please be careful misleading my child.  I know my child better than you, better than her dad or her sister.  To mislead a child in this scenario is custody interference.  This also misled the court record.  I know my child.  

    What is being done and has been done is child psychological trauma abuse.  Instead of placing blame on  me and the continued abuse of our daughters it would be respectful to admit what has been done by those who planned this event since at least 2012.  

    I am not done with this.  I will update in a few days the court hearings and give my perceptions of what happened. This is about her dads wants - it has nothing to do with me abusing my children.  I have been abused because I have stayed at home with our daughters and that was our choice.  The family of origin for the dads family has always voice their disagreement with this. In addition to the medical trauma they have cause due to addictive behaviors.  

    I won't allow lies to be projected on to me any longer my children know the truth of what has happened and we all know who the perpetrators are.  What has been done since May 21,2017 is the mental and emotional, Psychological trauma abuse to our children.  

    I have done one interview and I have more planned.  Stop the abuse to my children.  I take responsibility for what I do - but to lie and kidnapp our children for a false narrative this is abuse.  

#JusticeforAbigaileandNatascha